I express these thoughts and feelings after what has been seen on some social media platform. This blog is only to make you think about things like I have. Not to be rude or negative, but to enhance what ifs.

Maternal meaning Mothers Side, Death meaning died or passing away.

I recently saw a post about how a life that was changed dramatically after his mother died. It really made me think of a conversation had last week with a friend and another with my mum.

I have my mum and her mum still alive (thank goodness), and I am really happy about that. My dad has passed on, but still missed by us. It made me think “imagine if they were both gone?” “how different will I feel?” and “what will change?”. Morbid to think of such thoughts, but as we know, the only way to get to the end of this human game is to die. Game Over. I view it as moving on, to the next phase in your soul life. Yes the earthly matter you were born with stays here along with the soul fragments and memories created throughout your wonderful life. But soul moves on to the spirit realm and does it’s magic there.

In regards to the conversation with my friend, we spoke of her loss as a mother and how that felt. Grief. Sadness. Happy memories. But the biggest aha for me was when I spoke about the connection women have with their children. The maternal lineage. We grow our children with the umbilical cord, the flesh and blood of ours. Then birthing them into this bright light, nurturing them with breast or bottle always tenderly embracing until they are big enough, you get the jist. But it was the umbilical cord that connects us to our children, like our mother to us, her mother to her, see what I am explaining? The connection is like no other. The continuous connection of blood passed on through the ancestry of family. So no wonder there would be such strong grief with passing of a mother. (Dads too, not forgetting about their paternal link either.)

So you can see what I mean when it makes you think of things right? I know I have a brain that thinks of all sorts of things, random yes! A unique quality I possess. I am so intrigued with this link, the blood shared between mothers down the line. I question what else is shared. I know from experiences and what I have learnt, the experiences each female & male at that time of conception influence that created egg.

Question: Do you think your world will dramatically change when your mum passes?

My Answer: Definitely. My living maternal link to my ancestry will be gone. My connection to my childhood via my mum will be gone. My mate, my hero, my children’s grandma gone. I can only agree with the man from the shared social media post, yes, my life will change dramatically too. Something I am not rushing to learn either, just so you know mum!

Thank you to said man also for sharing your thoughts and expressing it. https://familylifegoals.com/when-you-lose-your-mom-a-part-of-your-soul-goes-with-her/?utm_source=aitch&fbclid=IwAR25KtrNWWGv1tN0YdRS3-pt6GJ6amj3H9yT8bj_3-SynQgFeXwPimVk3r4 (Note, I didn’t read the entire blog)

Well team, that is all for today, a questioning thought for you all. Let your loved ones know how special they are each and everyday. We all know why.

Love to you and yours,

Pete xx